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Tamar
Oct 3, 20241 min read
Post-Divorce Support Group - Sign Up Now!
Sign Up for a transformative post-divorce support group here: https://go.divorcecoachjill.com/postdivorcegroup
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Tamar
Dec 3, 20223 min read
Post-Divorce: Keep Holiday Traditions Alive WITHOUT Conflict
I recently listened in on an IG live chat about how to navigate "Elf on the Shelf" when you are co-parenting. It gave me pause. Ok, let...
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Tamar
Sep 19, 20221 min read
Divorce Guide to Help Children Cope - from a Lawyer!
If you read my blog and follow me on Instagram, you know I pump out a LOT of information about co-parenting and how to help children...
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Tamar
Aug 11, 20221 min read
Divorce Doesn't Suck - If You Heal
I was so honored to be invited onto the Divorce Doesn't Suck podcast. And what a fun conversation with Daniel and Wendy it turned out to...
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Tamar
Jun 29, 20221 min read
Take A Class!
Check out my new low-cost, online, on-demand class about dating as a divorced parent.
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Tamar
Jun 20, 20221 min read
My Message to Friends of Divorced Parents
And, once again, I have written a blog post for someone else! I do this because my goal is to get as many people to read my posts and...
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Tamar
Jun 15, 20221 min read
Single Mom Guilt
I've been pretty remiss in writing blog posts. Life gets in the way sometimes. You know what gets in the way of life though? GUILT. I now...
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Tamar
Feb 6, 20224 min read
Happy...Anniversary???
Today would have been my anniversary. It is the first year since my ex and I separated that I completely forgot about it. In fact,...
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Tamar
Jan 20, 20221 min read
Co-Parenting Conversation with Rainbow Housing Assistance
This was a wonderful conversation about co-parenting, A New Special Friend, and so much more. Take a listen!
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Tamar
Sep 21, 20213 min read
Communicate As If EVERYTHING Depends on It - Because it Does
Communication begins with "co" for a reason; the prefix "co" means jointly, helping. Communication is connection. Communication is...
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Tamar
Jun 3, 20210 min read
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Tamar
May 25, 20213 min read
Raising Happier, Well-Adjusted Kids in Two Homes
So, you are divorced. And now you have to share your kids with an asshole. Or a semi-asshole. Or just someone you used to love and now...
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Tamar
Mar 29, 20214 min read
Navigating (Kid) Friendships Post-Divorce
If you have been through a divorce, or if you are friends with someone who has been divorced, you know that friendships ebb and change...
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Tamar
Mar 2, 20213 min read
Maybe DO Sweat (Some of) the Small Stuff
We have been taught not to get triggered by "little things" in life. Generally, I agree. There is no reason to stress out over things...
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Tamar
Feb 14, 20213 min read
Why I Spent My Birthday With My Ex (Part II)
The second reason I chose to spend my birthday with my ex was this: he asked me to and he genuinely meant it. He wanted to show up for me...
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Tamar
Feb 14, 20213 min read
Why I Spent My Birthday With My Ex (Part 1)
I will start this post by saying this crucial thing - every co-parenting relationship is different. What works for me might not work for...
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Tamar
Jan 25, 20210 min read
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Tamar
Jan 14, 20210 min read
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Tamar
Dec 21, 20204 min read
Using Self-Doubt to Succeed
It's been an interesting few weeks for me. I hesitated in writing this because it's personal, but I think many of you can relate and I...
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